Have you been wondering what Miss E.V.E has been up too these days?
Well, whatever it is she looks damn good!
I must admit when I first heard the name "Stevie J" on "Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta" it never dawned on me that it was E.v.e's Ex "Stevie J". Duh!
Anyway, while he and others are doing "Reality" Shows Eve was in her hometown Philadelphia "Philly" facing her own reality.
Eve was a participant at the "Uniquely You Summit: Becoming Who You Are!" while there she took part in an "Intimate Hour' where she shared with high school girls, her road of self discovery and also spoke her past relationship with Stevie J.
Eve admitted that he was her first love and explained how she had to search within herself to end that toxic relationship. She stated:
"You know what, that was a learning experience, you meet people all the time. We just happen to fall in love. Umm, but thankfully I knew better. I know better. I am happily in love now."
She added, "and the girl now... he couldn’t even see this. I would be like, 'I’m sorry, we don’t speak the same language!'"Eve offered a little advice to the young girls about being aware of signs and making good decisions pertaining to guys they allow in their life:
"When I was younger I didn’t question things, but now I am annoying! Not nagging, but, like, if something doesn’t feel right, speak up!" Eve offered advice to the young girls; "If you feel like you are being lied to, speak up! If you feel like sexually he is trying to push you too fast, speak up."
"Let me tell you something, anybody that knows you're worth it will stick around."
"They might not talk to you about it; they may talk to you about it. But if they argue with you or if they call you a name or if they roll out, they are not meant to be in your life anyways."
Thoughts:
Wow! I am so proud of her and many others who were in that type of situation (male or female). Guys can be in toxic relationships as well. I say move on NOW... you will wonder why you stayed in it so long! :)
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